yeah one of you has to be the bigger man and let it be, but since he is n admin and can't really do that. i think in the end it solves nothing, so maybe you have to give that fight up, and we focus on the real problems, when time comes.
you are part of the problem you mentioned. everyone who joins here as newbie will be distracted by your private topics. there is nothing which is interesting to new users about your story with mixmaster or nattas dedication to Lon. why dont you just create a channel to pass time?